It is not easy to get into a relationship and it is all the more difficult to find the right person for a fulfilling relationship. Some are just causally dating, but nevertheless, they have a guy to spend Saturday evenings with. The casual flings can turn into a relationship, without you really meaning it to. A few weeks later, you are too emotionally dependent and scared of being lonely to break-free. If you are in a relationship for anything other than love, then maybe you need a reality check. Here are a few signs that indicate that all is not well.
1. You Have Been In It For Too Long
A break-up is never easy. It’s messy, it’s painful, and it’s inconvenient. So, you don’t really love your partner but you guys are high school sweethearts. You have been together for so long, that breaking up is just really problematic. Thus, you decide to stay together despite the fact you are not really happy, just because you are afraid to break free from the momentum.
2. You Want a Private helper
Having a boyfriend or girlfriend does have its advantages.You have someone who can pick up your laundry, take care of the all the manual labour, and pick up when you get detained at work. However if you are in a relation just for the then maybe you are not really in love. You just need a helping hand.
3. You Just Can’t Say No
A guy, who you often meet because you share a few common friends, proposed to you. You are alone, you are single, and you thought: “what the hell, let’s do this”! The only reason why you agreed to it in the first place was because you just couldn’t say NO. Or maybe you just didn’t want to hurt the poor guy. So, you went along. If that’s what has happened to you, then you really should reconsider.
4. When only Se-(x) matters
Se-(x) is very important in a relationship, but it should not be the only driving force. If you and your partner can’t help but hate each other all the time, and the only thing that makes the relationship bearable is some hot action then maybe it’s just pure lust. Physical attraction should never be the sole reason for co-existing.